I've been in the lifestyle for a little over 3 years. My goal is to share my experiences and the lessons that I have learned while navigating this new terrain. I hope to be an ear to couples and singles who are just beginning to explore this chapter in their lives.

My husband and I have generally been open in our sexual exploration. I’d suffice it to say that it is an ever-evolving beast.  We’ve tried almost every combination that you could think of. We’ve introduced single females, single males, multiple single females (something we lovingly refer to as a harem), us with another couple, us […]

This past weekend I had the pleasure of attending my first exposition that was aimed at Love and Sex. It was filled with adult film stars, cam girls, toy makers, lube manufacturers, swingers groups, sexy clothiers, and anything else that you can imagine being related to the topics of Love and Sex. And let me […]

One of the most common discussions that I have with new couples is how nervous they are about running into someone that they know or even worse, someone that works for the same company as them. And I don’t think that changes very much as you gain experience. Over time I’ve become to feel more […]

My handsome husband (HH) and I have a general rule of not playing separately. We certainly default to same room whenever possible, but every once in a while we will be in a situation where playing separately makes sense. Both of us are traveling quite a bit these days, so this possibility is becoming more […]

This summer has been an interesting one. If you’ve followed our blog, you know there hasn’t been a whole lot to follow or at least we haven’t been writing about it. Personally, there is a lot going on in my life.  But there was also a scenario that kicked off the summer that may be […]